The Slow Art of Watering

Because good watering is about roots — not rushing.

Apr 30, 2025

Good watering isn’t about frantic sprinkling — it’s about paying attention. Listening to the plants, noticing the soil, checking your pace, and observing.
In this post, I’m sharing how I water my garden pots and planters: the simple tests I use, and why slowing down is the key to thriving plants.

Pampered Pots

There are two kinds of plants: The rugged brave-it-alls, with roots sunk deep into the earth, tapping into hidden rivers of moisture and beneficial fungi threads; And the pampered pot-dwellers, stranded above ground, waiting patiently (and sometimes not-so-patiently) for their next drink.

Plants in pots are a little like cosseted aristocrats. All beauty and bearing — but in desperate need of regular refreshments and the occasional display of devotion.
Left unattended, they wilt dramatically, drop their leaves in a fit of pique, and stage slow-motion rebellions on the Terrace.

Unlike their earth-rooted cousins, potted plants have no secret networks, no fungal lifelines to call upon. Just you, the watering can, and a simple choice: indulge them... or risk a garden mutiny. If it's in a pot, you need to water it. No exceptions, no excuses — not even the succulents, who pretend to be stoic but still enjoy a little sip now and then.

You see, in open ground, plants are plugged into the intricate underground society of mycorrhizal fungi — microscopic companions who extend root systems, swap nutrients, and generally make life infinitely easier. In a container? Your plant is flying solo. It’s a bit like being stranded at a picnic with no food: delightful for an hour, dire after a day, dead after a week.

When To Water: Two Trusty Tests

Don’t wait for the droop. By the time a plant is sagging in protest, it’s already stressed. A little attention earlier keeps them upright, content, and quietly thriving. Make it part of your regular routine.

The Finger Test is simple:
Poke your index finger a good knuckle deep into the compost.

If it feels moist, relax and put the kettle on.
If it’s dry and dusty, fetch the hose!

Don’t like getting your hands grubby? No problem. Use the handle of an old wooden spoon and look for the moisture line like a plant detective.

The Lift Test is perfect for smaller pots — up to about the size of a trusty garden bucket.

Heavy as a sleeping cat? Leave it be.
Light as a feather? Water it.
(After watering, lift again and admire the satisfying heft of a fully hydrated pot.)

Quick aside: peat-free composts can be tricky. They often look dry on top but hold moisture deep down, so poke and lift before you panic.

Best Time To Water?

The short answer: early morning.
The long answer: morning if you can, evening if you must, and whenever you remember if you’re truly desperate for time.

Morning watering gives plants a full day's head start, filling their reservoirs before the sun gets fierce. Plus, dry ground by nightfall makes it harder for marauding molluscs to glide about feasting on your hostas. (Don't aid and abet the enemy.)

Evening watering is a solid Plan B — plants transpire less at night, meaning water lingers in the soil longer and will be ready for them in the morning. But let’s bust a myth while we’re here: plants do not drink like sponges at night. Water movement is driven by transpirational pull — the fancy term for evaporation from leaves dragging water upwards. No evaporation at night = very little water uptake. They’re not chugging like marathon runners; they’re snoozing.

What About Wilting?

Ah, the drama queens of the garden. Plants like delphiniums, hydrangeas and dahlias often flop dramatically during hot afternoons, only to perk up by sunset as if nothing ever happened. It’s normal. It’s strategy. It’s the botanical equivalent of a siesta.

If they’re still slumped and sulky come morning, then it’s time for a rescue mission!

More subtle signs of water stress (especially in shrubs) include yellowing leaves starting from the bottom and slow upward defoliation. Not exactly ideal. Avoid it by checking in regularly — a daily stroll through your garden is more than maintenance; it’s courtship. Gardening isn’t a fire-and-forget hobby. It's an ongoing conversation, a slow, sweet getting-to-know-you process where every wilt, every flourish, teaches you something new.

Choose Your Weapon: Tools Matter

Most hose attachments are about as delicate as a pressure washer at a pastry shop.
That gun-like spray trigger? Too fierce. The "jet" mode? More suited for cleaning car wheel arches than caressing tender roots.

Invest in a good watering lance with a fine, soft spray and steady stream. I swear by the Gardena Comfort Lance (genuine love for this). Gentle, precise, a good reach, and kind — everything you want in a watering companion.

Or, if you're feeling old-school (and a bit heroic), reach for a trusty watering can. Choose one with a coarse rose for a faster, more generous flow, and a long spout for those hard-to-reach pots tucked behind the jungle. Just be honest about your muscles: a one-gallon can weighs about 8 pounds (around 4kg) when full — nimble enough for quick dashes — while a two-gallon beast tips the scales at nearly 17 pounds. Fewer trips to the tap, yes, but you may find yourself developing the forearms of a Tudor blacksmith. Both have their place — and their own particular kind of satisfaction.

Think of it like this: a good tool doesn’t just deliver water. It sets the rhythm of watering — slower, softer, more deliberate.

Technique: Slow Your Flow

Spraying water wildly over leaves does no one any good (except maybe the fungal infections, who are practically throwing a party). Instead, aim low — at the base, around the stems — and take your time.

Pour too fast, and water just rushes straight through the pot, following ancient escape routes (or ant motorways — ants love a bit of dry soil chaos) and vanishing before your plant can take so much as a sip. Slow down. Damp the surface first, then circle back for a proper soaking. You’ll see it: the compost softening, drinking, settling in like a happy sponge.

Good watering is slow magic.

I have over a hundred pots and planters, and every week from April to October, I douse them all deeply — once, properly. No casual sprinkling. No wild drive-bys. It's a ritual now, stitched into the bones of the week: a time to notice, to tend, to fuss a little.

And yes, even if it’s been raining, I still check — lifting and poking — because every pot, every plant, every week tells its own small story. Some are greedy little drinkers; others are dreamy, slow sippers. You only learn by listening.

(And by the way: I rarely bother with pots smaller than a bucket. They're heartbreakers — drying out faster than a scandal at a village fête.)

Time-Saving Tricks

Watering deeply: This might seem slower in the moment, but it saves you time in the long run — plants drink deeper, the soil stays moist longer, and you skip the need for frantic second rounds later in the week.
Irrigation systems: A dream when they work, a nightmare when they don't. I run mine manually to top up prized plants like the Japanese Maples, always checking for leaks and mischievous malfunctions along the way.
Plates placed under pots: This helps retain precious moisture during heatwaves, giving your plants a little extra reservoir to sip from.
Group thirsty pots together: Create little "water villages" by clustering pots with similar needs. It saves you legwork and helps retain humidity around them. If it’s going to be a scorching week, push them all into the shade.

Final Thoughts

Watering isn’t just another garden task. It's a skill — a quiet habit that builds up over time, like any good craft. Each watering is a small promise: to notice, to care, to show up when it matters.

"Remember: watering well is less about the hose pressure, and more about the patience.

Happy drenching, friends!" 🌿